When Children Say 'I Hate Mom!'

Giving orders, or have a desire that is filled with the devout could give pleasure to some people. One of the things that make it fun being a parent (the reasons are a bit 'arrogant, of course).
When infants and children, the baby cries, frowning or indifferent to forget when you disagree with your opinion. But as he began to speak fluently, you start to get a rejection that often cause you to hit him. Until one day, out of his mouth the words that you never imagined before, "I hate her!" ...
What will you do when you hear these words? Reacted strongly with anger or hit? Keep you, Mom, there are wise ways to deal with this difficult situation.

Do not put your heart

Quote from parents, author of How to behave so your children, TOO!, Sal Severe, Ph.D., writes that small children can not express his feelings clearly. So they use extreme words like 'hate' to describe the sense of a receipt. In fact, they do not know how deep sense of the word 'hate' itself. So do not be taken seriously these words.

Responding to the contrary

 

He reacted strongly to what you are going to make your relationship with your child worse? Show your affection when he wants to let her know, ban will give nothing to do with whether or not you hate it. Say something like, 'Too bad I hate you Mom, because Mom loves you so much'.

Do not fall

Once you are hooked to the anger, hate that word, he knows that it is vulnerable. Other times he would use the same word, or worse yet a word to hurt you. Remain calm and unaltered to show control in this matter.

Explain when it disappears

When his anger (and anger) had subsided, explain that it is better to use the word 'angry', 'disappointed' or 'dislike' to describe the feeling of receiving rather than 'hate' speech. Explain that although the feel angry or disappointed, someone still has to do what you should do with the truth and obedience-Vemale.com